; ZiLaa, 15.
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This post is not for fun , but im sharing 2 ways of how u guys readers wants to get over with it . Its Goooood. There's Step 1 and 2 . If you think step 1 is difficult for you to understand some parts, then take step 2 [:

Step 1:
1 . More often than not, breaking up is as hard on the person ending the realtionship as it is on the person being broken up with - Dont assume just because a person is breaking up with you means that they no longer care about you, caring about you and wanting a relationship with you are not one and the same .

2 . Nobody likes to hurt another person , especially somebody that they have been close to , and it is often very easy to guilt trip somebody into staying with you when thay are trying to end things .Resist this urge ! When you use guilt as a way to stop a break up you not only cheat yourself out of having a good and true relationship , you foster resentment in the other person which could lead to greater pain and heartache in the future .

3 . Being broken up with does not mean that there is something wrong with you ; it just means that there is something that is not working in the relationship . Try not to take the rejection too personally . Remember that lots of great people have had failed relationships - the fact that the relationships failed says nothing about their value as a person . The fact that your relationship failed likewise says nothing about you as a person .

4 . It is all right to cry , get mad and feel hurt when you are dumped . These are normal natural feelings . Just be sure that you let your feelings out in a safe place among friends or family .Do not make your Ex the target of your feelings , even if they have done something to deserve your outrage . The sooner you let go of the person , the sooner the healing can begin .

5 . Breaking up is never easy . You will have good days and you will have bad days . Take it one day at a time and dont beat yourself if you have an overly emotional day - you're human after all .

6 . Break ups are often followed by one of the parties starting a new relationships and when this happens it can bring up all sorts of old feelings . If you thought you were over someone who broke up with you and find yourself upset at the news that he/she has moved on , rest assured you are normal . Let yourself be upset , it is part of the healing process .

7 . Acting out in anger is never good for anybody . After breaking up with dont spread mean or spiteful rumors . Dont betray former confidences by telling old secrets to others . If another person was involved in your break up resist the urge to slam them behind their back . Acting vicious only makes you look bad and any satisfaction you may feel will be short lived . In the end this sort of behaviour will only make you feel worse .

8 . A big part of the pain of breaking up comes from a feeling of embarrassment . We often fear how the situation will look to outsiders . Refuse to be embarrassed , even if you did something outlandish to cause your break up . Letting go of the embarrassment will help you move on to the healing .

9 . Nobody ever deserves to be hurt . Your Ex does not deserve to be hurt because you are hurting . Your Ex's new love interest (if one even exists) does not deserve to be hurt just because you feel jealous . You do not deserve to be hurt , even if you acted badly and cause the break up . Breaking up hurts but it does'nt have to be made worse by holding a grugde or drowning yourself in a pool of if only's . Deal with the reality and let go of your anger , the pain will disappear more quickly if you do .

10 . Things may seem bleak now but you never know what future may hold for you and your Ex . You may get back together someday . You may not . Either way it is better to let go of a faltering relationship while there is still some caring left between the two of you .If you play it out to the bitter end and leave your Ex no choice but to hate you to get rid of you , you close the door to the future .Bowing out graciously leaves room for a future relationship with your Ex , even if it just as good friends .

Step 2:
1. Remember that time heals all wounds. Give yourself plenty of time to heal and recuperate . Put away pictures , gifts or any mementos that remind you of your ex . It is natural to experience feelings of denial , but do your best to resist the urge to call your ex and ask to get back together . Immediately after a break-up , you are at your most vulnerable state so be careful not to get into a rebound relationship that may prove to be a mistake .

2. Surround yourself with friends and loved ones . Talk about how you're feeling and allow them to comfort you and offer you advice . A break up can be a very lonely experience , therefore , surrounding yourself with others that you love and trust will help to erase some of the loneliness . Don't try to deal with the experience all by yourself . In fact , go out and meet new people , rebuild old relationships , network and immerse yourself into social situations . Keep yourself busy doing things you enjoy with the people you love and don't dwell on the past .

3. Go out and have fun . Don't stay home and sulk as it will only make you feel more miserable . Round up a group of friends and hit the town . Do something fun and exciting . Plan a weekend beach or camping trip or take a quick out of town getaway . Going out with friends will remind you that being single can be just as fun as being in a relationship . It will also help to keep your mind off of your ex .

4. Take some time off for yourself . If you can , take some time off work and get away from the world for a while . Use this time to reflect on your life and expectations for the future . Enjoy your time alone with relaxing activities like reading , taking long baths , watching your favorite movies or engaging in a favorite hobby or past time . Basically , take this time to do whatever makes you feel the most relaxed and calm . It is important to clear your mind of all negative feelings , and relaxing will help you to slowly let go of any lingering bitterness .

5. Start dating again . After you have given yourself adequate time to get over your last relationship , you should consider getting back into the dating game . Allow yourself to fall in love again and enjoy the start of a new relationship . Be careful to not rush things and take the time to really let your partner into your life . However , take care not to be consumed in this or any other relationship because you never know when another break-up may happen .

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And tomorrow marks the start of common test ! I wonder how am i gonna do for my English. *fingers crossed* To readers who 's common test starts tomorrow also , all the best. And that includes my TTM .
Wanna know who is he ? One day laa kaay.

Taaa-daaa ! im done.
Astalavista beybeh .